Second Opinions

This is something that’s been on my mind for a long time now. I’m trying to understand the concept of asking someone’s opinion๐Ÿ’ญ

Are we really asking for their opinion or were we just hoping for validation on a decision that we already made? And if it’s not what we were hoping to hear then what do we do? But then if we really need this sort of validation, then deep down we probably know it’s the wrong one right? All these thoughts tho….mmmmm

But what is validation to me? Need for feedback from others? Do we always need validation?๐Ÿ’ญ

No you do not! You do not need anyone’s opinion on who you choose to be.

Be crazy, be yourself, don’t care what anyone else thinks because the truth is society is weird! They ask you to be yourself and yet they judge you for it ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ‘Ž not cool dude! Not cool!

You have to be who you are, be genuine and don’t conform, follow your own value system ๐Ÿ™and of cause common sense because in most situation that’s what’s needed! Just a little bit of old common sense! But at the same time it’s important to listen ๐Ÿ‘‚to advice given to us by others, because let’s face it some people do know more than us ๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜œ so, from that advice you can still make up your own mind. Do not ever live under someone else’s shadow! ๐Ÿ™ˆ Cliche I know but always stand up for what you believe in because you are enriching others by being YOU!๐Ÿ’ƒ

When you start thinking for yourself you are more open to self improvement, you start to trust your abilities and expand your mind ๐ŸŒพ๐ŸŒพI wouldn’t mind a bit of that!

Growing up has taught me that being different is a gift๐Ÿ’๐ŸŽAnd when I conform to the way others want me to be I loose myself, and yes there has been those times, for the need to be accepted and liked but all that does in the end is debilitates you as a person. And you aren’t YOU! And it’s actually selfish that society expects this. I say “if you can’t handle me at my worse, you don’t deserve me at my best” ๐Ÿ‘ป๐Ÿ’„So, anyway, you don’t need anyone’s validation, go on, go ahead, you decide on what you want and you get it! ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿ‘Š

Because as humans, we naturally have our own opinions about certain matters and topics that are important to us and the stronger the importance the stronger our personal opinion ๐Ÿ™Š๐Ÿ˜Š

And I’m not all innocent in thinking that my way is the best way but I would like to believe that everyday I’m becoming a little more understanding and accepting of others. One day at a time ๐Ÿ™

So we shouldn’t be surprised when someone doesn’t agree with us or would much rather have it another way ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ #tantrum

The easiest thing in life is to respect everyone’s opinion, understand that it will always be different, do not compel people to accept your way of thinking, allow for freedom of choice, see everyone for who they are and ALLOW them to be who they are ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

Because after all who wants to be surrounded by the same old boring people with the same mentality. Variety is good๐Ÿ˜œ be silly, be random, scream for no reason, cry, laugh!

Be the person you are, because you never know who would love the person you hide โค๏ธ๐Ÿ’‹

Each day you have the ability to make the choice to take control of your life or let it be controlled๐Ÿ”ซ The choice is yours!

This is a reminder to me first and I hope that it can serve as a reminder to all๐Ÿ™

Stay weird!

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